Fear doesn’t have to matter anymore, if we have a purpose a reason for our life, a reason for doing something.
Over the years in organizations, I have seen again and again people not understanding what the purpose is of the task they are involved in. People go to endless meetings and don’t even know why they are there.
I encourage you to develop the practice of having a purpose, a reason for what it is you are doing. This will considerably increase your confidence and directly it’s a stepping stone towards you achieving the outcomes for your success. Remember each step you take, will move you closer to your dream, aspiration, vision.
We all want to be the best that we can, we all want to do a good job, we all want to please our boss, and we all want recognition. If we know what we are doing, and why we are doing it, it gives our work and our life meaning and substance and propels us towards our outcomes.
Purpose and Outcomes:
When we define our purpose, our reason for whatever it is we are doing, we build our self confidence.
We also need to be clear about the outcome, the results that we want to create. This is linked into intention, because our intentions are a powerful force that comes from within.
Just by declaring ‘my intention is …’ helps you to get clear about what it is you want and increases your self confidence.
If you know your outcome, what your intention is to achieve, with each step your vision, aspiration, dream becomes clearer. With each step you take towards success, you can feel it, you can smell it, and you get hungry to have it. This is where loving what you do and doing what you love, starts to kick in and give you power that drives you forward.
To Know Success, You Have To Know Failure
Along your path to success, remember that every failure, adversity and unpleasant experiences are often a blessing in disguise.
One of the most powerful sayings that I have heard and one that has helped me so many times, when I have slipped and fallen is ‘God’s way of giving you a gift, is wrapped inside a problem’ I have come to believe this and it makes me more resolute in recognizing that, ‘when the going gets tough, the tough get going’!
I am sure you have heard the story of Thomas Edison and his 10,000 attempts to make the light bulb. There is a similar story about Henry Ford, he would not give in and sent his engineers repeatedly back to the workshop again and again and again. Through his commitment, to the making of the motor car and his recognizing that to fail, was an opportunity in disguise, we owe the first motor car to his ‘never give up’ attitude. Both of these men had much in common, as do today’s entrepreneurs like Richard Branson, Bill Gates and Warren Buffet in spite of his immense wealth, as one of the richest people in the world, still lives moderately and chooses to give billions of dollars of his fortune, away to those less fortunate.
I was delighted to see him interviewed on CNN, where he said he dances to work.